You know that feeling when someone texts you to cancel plans, and instead of disappointment, you feel… relief? Like a weight has been lifted off your chest? Yeah, that’s me almost every time. I used to think this made me antisocial or a bad friend. But lately, I’ve been wondering if it says something deeper…
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When I’m Busy, I Feel Important. When I’m Still, I Feel Exposed.
There’s something oddly addictive about being busy at work. Not just the movement itself—but the meaning that comes with it. I caught myself the other day during a suddenly quiet workday. It was a rare slow day, but I tried to fill it with other things—emails that weren’t urgent, spreadsheets that could’ve waited, quick calls…

